Magnetism is the intangible charm and captivating aura that some individuals effortlessly exude. It’s more than just physical attractiveness—it’s a convergence of confidence, self-belief, and high-frequency energy. This concept is about learning to tap into your unique personal magnetic energy.
Magnetism, as author and magnetism champion Amber Lyon defines it, is about flipping the traditional equation of how we determine our worth and joy by starting from within.
Unlike manifestation, which often focuses on future acquisitions like a new car or job, magnetism centers on embodying the traits, behaviors and actions of your future self in the present moment. The key is to align yourself internally with your desired reality and radiate that energy outward. When you do this, you naturally attract opportunities, relationships, and joy into your life because you are living in alignment with those outcomes (and we rewire our brain to notice information that validates our more confident state).
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Lyon explains that “we so often set our goals as the means to deliver us some sense of confidence or worth that we don’t already possess. The truth is there’s always going to be another milestone to reach, the true joy in our lives is much less about arriving and so much more to do with how we feel day to day on the way there.”
Lyon continues, “Magnetism is all about making this moment and yourself worthy enough of your enjoyment and bringing that energy into all that you do. This shift in perspective changes everything, making life feel more seamless and fulfilling.”
Self worth is a cornerstone of personal magnetism. It involves embracing your authentic self and owning it with pride. True self worth is not about being boastful or arrogant but about making peace with who you are. Self-belief is another crucial element. It means trusting in your potential and acting in alignment with your goals before the evidence stacks up to prove your efforts.
Lyon also talks about cultivating a ‘high-frequency mindset’ which is about focusing on what’s going right in your life, reinforcing an empowered outlook that is both magnetic and contagious. Overcoming inner resistance is vital as well; it involves showing up for yourself even when it feels difficult, developing self-discipline, and creating habits that align with your future goals.
Lyon’s approach to enhancing magnetism with her clients involves several key steps. First, she helps clients take inventory of their current beliefs and reprogram limiting beliefs through guided self-hypnosis. Next, she assists them in setting an authentic vision that aligns with their core values and greater purpose. Breaking down this vision into a repeatable daily routine is essential for making steady progress. Additionally, custom recorded radiance meditations are used to affirm a new state of being and reinforce positive belief systems.
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When asked how someone can identify magnetism in their own lives, Lyon suggests reflecting on moments when you felt most authentic and true to yourself, considering what you were doing and how it made you feel. Think about people you find charismatic and the specific traits or behaviors they possess that draw you in. “We often gravitate towards others who are living out a fragment of a dream of vision we have for ourselves. Where you are inspired and curious is where life has left a breadcrumb for you to follow.”
When speaking about how to tap into a more magnetic state, Lyon shares “Imagine your ideal scenario for this next chapter of your life, then take your focus from the circumstances and zone in on what would be different about yourself as an outcome of those circumstances. Envision how you would carry yourself, how you would speak, your daily habits and routines and what beliefs you would hold about yourself. Then coming out of that visualization write out an action plan for how you can implement some of those things into this week, whether it be physically holding yourself differently, or integrating a new hobby.”
Lyon’s concept of magnetism is not about forcing outcomes but about consciously creating a good life starting from within.
Amber Lyon’s new book, You Are a Magnet: Guiding Principles for a Magnetic and Joyful Life, demystifies the transformative concept of magnetism, offering readers a path to creating the life they desire while enjoying the journey there. You Are a Magnet, is definitely one of our reads for this summer.
In addition to her book, Lyon is the founder of Modern Mind, a platform where she shares resources on magnetism, private coaching, her app, and more.
By embodying your authentic self and focusing on the present moment, you can create a life filled with joy and purpose.
For more information about Amber Lyon and Magnetism, visit her Modern Mind website. To purchase the book, check out Amazon, Kindle, Audible, and Barnes & Noble.
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